3.20.2016

Thinking...

I was commenting to a co worker about this attorney that I used to work for...Suvinder Aluwalia. Suvinder from my perspective was a bit tyrannical in his approach. He constantly had his paralegal leaving the office and tears and had no problem telling you that since he went to Harvard, he was better than you. 

So I made comments about this man that I used to work for...I didn't know him personally...I always have given him a wide berth, his reputation preceded him. 

For some weird reason I looked up the old law firm on their website and noticed that Suvinder wasn't listed. I'm thinking that he had his own practice by now and he was doing well. So I type his name in the Google search field and the first thing that comes up was his obituary. 

Suvinder passed away in October 2015 right before his 50th birthday, a heart attack had done him in. 

I instantly began to cry! I began reading all of the heartfelt sentiments and condolences to his family...realizing that I only saw one aspect of this man. I was also sad that a light was no longer burning brightly. It was prematurely extinguished and for a few minutes I didn't know how to deal with it. 

Just a reminder to live each second with passion and to the fullest. You never know when people you know or love will be taken from you. 

1 comment:

Stefonsky said...

Sorry to hear that man. Very young. And it's true, we never know!